I actually signed up for eHarmony. And I’m already wondering if it’s worth it.
I know it’s only been 2 days. But seriously, 2 matches already responded that they are pursuing other relationships.
So why are your profiles still up? Why are you wasting my time?
And am I wasting my own time?

I loathed online dating, I didn’t do so great at it I think I’m just too overly cautious of it.
That said its only been 2 days not 2 months so I think that you have time yet
eHarmony was the only one I paid money for, and it was a total waste. I’ve heard better things about Match.com, but I have no money. So I’ll be single and celibate FOREVERRRRR.
I had *great* success with OKcupid.com, and it’s free. It has an extensive matching process and not as many skeevy old men. Just a suggestion, if you have to success with eHarmony.
Kari – I know it’s been only 2 days. Just getting the frustrations out there.
Jackie – I tried Match.com first and had no success after months and months of paying.
C – I’ll keep OKCupid in mind.
Heather’s having great luck with Match! I signed up and I have a bazillion emails in my inbox that I can’t read because I’m not a paying member.
Like I have time to date anyway…
OMG!!! I wish you talked to me first b4 u paid and signed up…biggest waste of money & time with eharmony. as you and i are in the same boat, eharmony doesnt work well for overweight people.
match is the same as adultfriendfinder or fling…just “hook-up” sites. 95% of the men who say they are single, are not and are indeed married and just want some ass on the side. yahoo personals arent bad, but i kept getting Sleepy as a match…lmao…we had a couple good chuckles about that.
ps Happy Independance Day To YOU!!!