It’s soooo easy to bitch, but not do anything to change the situation. Jim loves to tell everyone that we suffer from a lack of communication. Which we do. But not for trying on my part.
The latest…He feels it is my responsibility to call him and offer him the kids on Father’s Day since it falls on my weekend. I’ve been waiting weeks for him to call me and ask for the kids.
When an event falls on his day, and I want to take the kids (i.e. Passover, etc.) I call him and ask to switch days. I don’t expect him to call me and offer the time.
To top it off, I called him when he was getting married, offering him extra over nights with the kids in order to make the rehearsal and wedding day easier.
When I did call him tonight to talk about this, he hung up on me.
Jim, if you don’t want the kids, just be honest. Don’t try to blame me for your behavior. I just don’t accept that anymore.
Sounds like his responsibility is to be difficult. Yeah that really helps the kids.
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